Gul Shivnani

INTENTIONS V/s ATTITUDE (Behaviour)

      (Gul shivnani)  If intentions are clean and clear, you will win the WORLD. But of it is otherwise (malafide, wrong, cunning, selfish Intentions) it will be very difficult for you to even win yourself. Intentions drive your thoughts, Thoughts drive your behavior, Behaviour drives your words and body language.All this is converted in ATTITUDE that is been observed by others.  We are talking of 2 strong words here – Intentions and Attitude. We will talk...

I AM SPECIAL

      (Gul Shivnani) When we hear the word special, always it comes to our mind I am a VVIP OR I am not worth of anything so I need to be special. Now that has multiple meaning other than important person. It can be Insensitive, Interpersonal, Irreconcilable, Investigative, Impractical, Impressionistic OR Independent, Intelligent, Intellectual, Incorruptible, Incomparable, Informative.  What were you thinking around? Confused? We are only talking of...

Relationship - Suryakant and his new Famliy - STORY

       (Gul Shivnani) Pranali’s son is in his early adolescents age and infatuated with a girl studying in same class. He is not comfortable to talk to his non-biological father about the same, despite he has been seen twice with the girl by him. Father tried to confront him couple of times but he is able to dodge him and move out of the house. He used to have quick chat with his mother on other topics but not about the girl he has been moving around. Finally, a...

Relationship - Suryakant and his new Famliy

 (Gul Shivnani) Suryakant and New Partner.Nature played its role and Suryakant (divorcee) got attracted to a lady who used to meet him during travel to the fixed destination.  Mumbai trains you know na! how they are, Ladies compartment adjacent to male compartment. He had been watching her for some time now and started to develop feelings for her. She also responded with the same feelings. But they both did not had the courage to talk to each other for almost 5 months....

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems – ANGER ## Part -2

(Gul Shivnani)                          ANGER Chapter 16 / Shloka 1, 2 & 3 श्रीभगवानुवाच अभयं सत्त्वसंश‍ुद्धिर्ज्ञानयोगव्यवस्थिति: । दानं दमश्च यज्ञश्च स्वाध्यायस्तप आर्जवम् ॥ १ ॥ अहिंसा...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems – ANGER ## Part -1

ANGER Chapter 2 / Shloka 56दुःखेष्वनुद्विग्न‍मनाः सुखेषु विगतस्पृहः । वीतरागभयक्रोधः स्थिधीर्मुनिरुच्यते ॥ ५६ ॥duḥkheṣv anudvigna-manāḥ sukheṣu vigata-spṛhaḥ vīta-rāga-bhaya-krodhaḥ sthita-dhīr munir ucyateSynonymsduḥkheṣu — in the threefold miseries; anudvigna-manāḥ — without being agitated...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems - DEMOTIVATION

DEMOTIVATED Chapter 11 / Shloka 33 तस्मात्त्वमुत्तिष्ठ यशो लभस्व जित्वा शत्रून्भुंक्ष्व राज्यं समृद्धम् । मयैवैते निहता: पूर्वमेव निमित्तमात्रं भव सव्यसाचिन् ॥ ३३ ॥tasmāt tvam uttiṣṭha yaśo labhasva jitvā śatrūn bhuṅkṣva rājyaṁ...

Relationship - Father and DNA Son - Story

Father and DNA Son - Soothing Story Suryakant – So how are you doing beta, it’s been a while we spoke and met. How are your studies going on. Son – I am doing good Papa, just wishing if you and mom can live together?  Suryakant – Bacha, we can have this conversation later. We have got very limited time and let us make full use of the same. Tell me what all you intend to do today.  Son - I know papa, we may or may not meet again. Suryakant – Na Na, do not...

Relationship - Father and DNA Son

An intricate relation between Father and Son. The story starts from the day Mr. Suryakant got married. It was not a comfortable marriage but a usual disputed one. The marriage did not last for a longer duration and had many issues and challenges. After a span of almost 11 months the crisis day arrived when the wife walked out of the house as per instructions of her parents and the spiritual guru. She was pregnant with 3 months during that time. In the meantime, Suryakant got a good...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems – GREED

Chapter 14 / Shloka 17सत्त्वात्सञ्जायते ज्ञानं रजसो लोभ एव च । प्रमादमोहौ तमसो भवतोऽज्ञानमेव च ॥ १७ ॥sattvāt sañjāyate jñānaṁ rajaso lobha eva ca pramāda-mohau tamaso bhavato ’jñānam eva caSynonymssattvāt — from the mode of goodness; sañjāyate — develops; jñānam — knowledge; rajasaḥ — from...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems - CONFUSION

Chapter 2 / Shloka 7  कार्पण्यदोषोपहतस्वभावः पृच्छामि त्वां धर्मसम्मूढचेताः । यच्छ्रेयः स्यान्निश्‍चितं ब्रूहि तन्मे शिष्यस्तेऽहं शाधि मां त्वां प्रपन्नम् ॥ ७ ॥kārpaṇya-doṣopahata-svabhāvaḥ pṛcchāmi tvāṁ...

Intercaste marriage: Story:

         This is about a couple who have known each other for almost 1 year. They will be getting married within next 2 weeks.        The boy is Sindhi and the girl is Maharashtrian. Both are working couples. The boy is the Executive Director of the Manufacturing industry and the girl is a Manager in a Software Company. They meet every evening for about 2 to 3 hours (before the wedding).       Girl: You are telling me about your...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems - DEPRESSION

DEPRESSION Chapter 2 / Shloka 3  क्ल‍ैब्यं मा स्म गमः पार्थ नैतत्त्वय्युपपद्यते । क्षुद्रं हृदयदौर्बल्यं त्यक्त्वोत्तिष्ठ परन्तप ॥ ३ ॥klaibyaṁ mā sma gamaḥ pārtha naitat tvayy upapadyate kṣudraṁ hṛdaya-daurbalyaṁ tyaktvottiṣṭha...

Intercaste Marriage !

      When a man and a woman come together and take good care of each other. They are ready to live for each other in any situation. This bond is based on the trust and affection shown by each of them. Faith is again a complex concept, right ? We have faith and love for our parents, brothers and sisters, but is it the same between husband and wife or todays deserving couples ? Have you ever considered the reasons behind this ? Because we have spent at least 18 years with our...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems - FEAR!

                       FEAR         Chapter 11 / Shloka 50 सञ्जय उवाचइत्यर्जुनं वासुदेवस्तथोक्त्वास्वकं रूपं दर्शयामास भूय: ।आश्वासयामास च भीतमेनंभूत्वा पुन: सौम्यवपुर्महात्मा ॥ ५० ॥sañjaya...

BHAGAVAD GITA Solution to all our problems !!

FEAR Chapter 4 / Shloka 10 वीतरागभयक्रोधा मन्मया मामुपाश्रिताः ।बहवो ज्ञानतपसा पूता मद्भ‍ावमागताः ॥ १० ॥ vīta-rāga-bhaya-krodhāman-mayā mām upāśritāḥbahavo jñāna-tapasāpūtā mad-bhāvam āgatāḥvīta — freed from; rāga — attachment; bhaya — fear; krodhāḥ — and anger; mat-mayāḥ — fully in Me; mām — in Me;...